
jolene u want pics right? nah! up there! haha!
the girl beside me is annette, my very gd frd back in sec school.
we met up last sun for some catching up^^)
okay,
traits of my future spouse?
i think i do have high expectations huifen!=x
hmm...lets see...
ONE,
that gentleman has to be a gentleman of course,
AND the word gentleman speaks ALOT
HE has to be caring, sweet and thoughtful,
HE should understand me well..
But not to an extent that
he can predict i'm gg to eat char kway teow the next min or smthg,(so random)
what i mean is that he understands women's feelings and
is able to tell when i'm upset afraid or lonely,
so HE could lend a ear or shoulder for me whenever wherever(awwww..this will be so sweet!)
TWO,
HE should be able to balance out between work, family, friends and ME
HE should give a fair share of time to each of this, not leaving anyone out..
but i dont mind if he spend more time on me!
who wants a guy who eat drink play with his friends all day, not giving a damn concern abt u?
cant imagine what's worse when u have kids-.-
Also,
HE should say "i love u", give a peck on my cheek and mean it everyday!
c'mon! it's one of the healthy way to maintain a relationship!
THREE,
HE MUST LOVE KIDS!
We should produce our own kids unless impossible(touchwood)
i wish for a soccer team! bwahha!=D
Alright alright..mayb minimum 4? :DDD
Same to the kids, HE's gotta say "i love u" to our kids everyday without fail too:)
i will do the same too of course:))
FOUR,
HE should be bilingual so we would have no prob communicating,
and especially, teaching our future kids:) (am i thinking too far?hah!)
FIVE,
HE should be a person with dreams and aspirations,
a person with goals will go further than one with none right?
If he's already working, his income should be $5000 & above/mth(too high?)
u can say i'm a money face,
but i'm just gonna say that
i would want to live a good life with my husband and kids,
not having to worry about monetary issues--kids education,insurance,tution,clothes..
the list goes on and on..
money cant buy happiness,
but u wont find happiness witht money too yea?
if ur guy earns $2000/mth..can he really afford to give u and ur kids a good life?hmm...mayb?
SIX,
HE should be a fit pleasant looking healthy taller-than-me guy
i'm sure anyone will enjoy going out with a guy who looks gd and feels gd!
HE must be taller than me cause i have this weird feeling that if my guy's shorter than me,
i'll feel so awkward for him! =.=
Actually, i still do have so many expectations n i cant seem to list em all out now!
sleepy already..haha! i know i do have high expectations don't i?
Wells, these expectations can be negotiated/discarded cause love is blind!
once u fall in love with a guy, all his flaws seems nthg to u!
u wont be able to differentiate what's right n wrong cause in ur eyes,
He's just so perfect!
<3<3<3
shall continue further nxt time!
CHERIES ALL, NIGHT NIGHTS!